Core Beliefs - 85%
Since 85% of problems in marriage begin before you got married, it is important to begin to understand what those core differences and beliefs are What might seem "normal" to you might be very odd to your spouse. Most of these differences do not come to light until after you are married!
An evaluation is on Page 51.
What is Your 85%?
What is Your Normal?
What you learned from your family of origin about relationships will stick in your mind as "normal." What you think is normal might be completely opposite of what your spouse thinks is normal.
What is Your 85%
85% of problems in marriage were brought into the marriage!
(Research by Kimberly Newell OpenStax-CNX model: m45043)
“Why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye?” Matthew 7:3-5 (NIV)
What I Received
What is Your Love Style?
What is Your Love Style?
Needs not met in the family of origin will always be desired and can even be expected from a person's spouse. There will always be a longing and sensitivity to these unmet desires of the heart.
The "What I Received" Worksheet is adapted from materials of John Rieger, www.caringfortheheart.com
What is Your Love Style?
What is Your Love Style?
What is Your Love Style?
Take your Love Style Quiz in your Marriage Handbook to understand the process your spouse uses to love you.
More Information:
(Page 49 in Handbook.)
WHAT IS YOUR ATTACHMENT STYLE?
WHAT IS YOUR ATTACHMENT STYLE?
WHAT IS YOUR ATTACHMENT STYLE?
There is an "Attachment Style" evaluation in your A'nesis Marriage Training Handbook you can fill out and discuss together.
(PAGE 57 in Handbook)
WHAT IS YOUR LOVE LANGUAGE?
WHAT IS YOUR ATTACHMENT STYLE?
WHAT IS YOUR ATTACHMENT STYLE?
Take the Love Language Quiz in your A'nesis Marriage Handbook and have fun discussing your love language.
(PAGE 59 in Handbook)
PRAY FOR CORE BELIEFS
WHAT IS YOUR ATTACHMENT STYLE?
PRAY FOR CORE BELIEFS
Pray with Dr. Trudy about your differing core beliefs.